I could simply type "2020" and everyone would have a whole recollection of "firsts" for the past year. So many unexpected experiences. I have seen the word "unprecedented" more in the past twelve months than I have in my whole life. Yes, it is definitely a year that will not quickly pass from memory.
Like all of you, I have undergone a series of "firsts":
1) First time wearing a mask when entering a bank (add church, grocery store, etc. etc.); 2) First time not going to church for two months, because we weren't allowed to be there in person; 3) First time seeing our family and not hugging them; 4) First time attending church at a distance from others; 5) First time attending church and being told not to sing; 6) First time staying at a motel with a complimentary breakfast--and being given a brown bag; 7) First time trying to connect with people without them seeing me smile back; 8) First time visiting friends with a door, window, or at least 6' between us; 9) First time teaching piano lessons remotely (which began with a whole lot of other "firsts"); and, 10) First time I have taken a walk EVERY day for several weeks in a row just so I could be out of the house!
As you're reading this, you can probably relate to most or all of those "firsts" as well.
But, totally unrelated to COVID-19, this has been another year of "firsts" (beginning in October, 2019):
1) First year my dad celebrated his birthday in the presence of his Lord; 2) First year of not having Dad call to ask about the weather, and "are you kids safe up there?"; 3) First year of going to Kansas, but Dad wasn't there to greet us; and, 4) First year of longing for heaven so much it physically hurts.
This list could go on and on, but I'm sure you get the picture.
Let's move on, though. What are some of the truly positive "firsts"?
Our family has spent more time together than ever before. In certain moments, that may have felt like a negative instead of a positive. I mean, four adults together in a 2-bedroom apartment?! But even on those occasions when we all just needed some s-p-a-c-e, it was a positive. We have learned new ways to talk through our differences and help each other through the craziness of life.
Our oldest son landed his first full-time job. That, my friends, is definitely a positive.
Our family has gone on more outdoor adventures than ever before. Including, but not limited to, getting lost on a hiking trail, along with about 20 strangers. (Which reminds me of a letter I should write to the Cuyahoga County Parks folks. Trail markers are an important tool in life!)
In far deeper ways, I have learned to appreciate the times I do have with friends and family.
I have learned how much strength I draw from being at church with my brothers and sisters in Christ, and from the reception of Holy Communion. From March to May, watching Mass via a computer screen, it created this deep longing inside. The first time "public" Mass was offered at our church, we were there, masks in place!
I have experienced life without my dad's verbal encouragement, yes. But I have learned to live out his words of wisdom by simply remembering his example. What a gift!
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PEOPLE. We were created for relationship. I pray that we all learn the importance of that in new ways in the year 2021.
May your new year be filled with more positive "firsts" and less negative!
